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Closet Refresher Tips

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Shayla Cox, Fellow Style

We know it’s hard to believe, but soon it will really feel like Spring and for some, the usual shopping spree that ensues at the change of seasons may be an unrealistic notion.  In Her Shoes has tapped into the expertise of New York City personal stylist and shopper, Shayla Cox, who will share her priceless Spring 2009 Closet Refresher Tips to help maximize what you already own. If shopping is necessary, it will be the absolute necessities, and not a complete free-for-all.  Here we go!

1. Yes, the 80/20 Rule Applies

So, not sure if you know this but, you wear 20% of your clothes 80% of the time.  Never thought about it like that, huh?  Everyone is different, but these clothes are most likely your basics: your daily denim, those comfy flats you can’t do without on the weekends, or that cardigan that makes your life complete.  Figure out what’s included in your 20% and know that when shopping, items similar to those in your 20% can be investments (if necessary.)  Don’t spend all your money on something you can and will only wear once!

On the contrary, look at the things that aren’t a part of the 20%.  Pull out those pieces that you haven’t worn in a while.  Hopefully, it wasn’t too trendy and may have just fell by the way side.  Find a new use for it, and pair it with something new.  The tips below will assist as well.

2.  Swap/Borrow Clothes with Friends and Family

Tread lightly here ladies… you know whom you can, and can’t borrow from and lend to.  However, take it back to college and go through your friend’s closet.  Hey, try your mom’s closet, she may have some cool finds from the 70’s or 80’s that you can jazz up and make your own.

Some stores are even getting in the game.  A vintage store around my way in Brooklyn, Collecther, has clothing swap events where you pay a small flat fee to get in and all the ladies bring the clothes they no longer wear.  What fun!

3.  Be Inspired

Find inspiration in everything… that chick you see at the neighborhood restaurant that always has on the cutest shoes, or your fave blog with hot pictures of real street style.  Are you an art fanatic? There’s plenty of inspiration there; if the colors work well together in a painting, they probably work well for your ensemble.  Maybe there is a culture that speaks to you, their colors, the jewelry, the fabrics produced by the people.  Be careful not to go overboard and make the look too literal, you wouldn’t want to look like you’re in costume. Take aspects of what you see and your experiences and incorporate them into your style.

To get started, look through magazines and pull out pages of the things you’re drawn to.  It doesn’t even have to be clothing related.  You may want to also start an inspiration board in your office or  folder on your desktop. Whenever you see an image you love, or someone who looks magnificent, add the picture to your inspiration board.  Before you know it you’ll have an entire collection of pictures to reference for hair, make-up, and clothing ideas.

4.  Mix Patterns & Textures

This will probably be one of the more difficult things to do but practice, practice, practice.  The key here is to find patterns and textures of different scales.  Think of a small pindot shirt and maybe a large print paisley skirt.  To start, keep the colors muted and/or monocramatic until you get comfortable with the process.

This change in thought may open up a new realm of possibilities that you never thought of.

and lastly…

5.  It’s OK to have a signature piece. It’s all about branding!

It’s completely fine to have a signature piece that you wear all the time (I would suggest an accessory).  Or maybe its how you style your hair, or it could be the red lip that you can’t get enough of.  This is the era of YOU… what’s special about you?  What is it that only you do or that you’re known for?  Capitalize on that!  This is a completely good excuse to repeat things in your wardrobe ladies!  People will recognize it when you are consistent, but you must look like you did intentionally.  Keep them guessing by rocking the same thing (or a consistent silhouette in an array of colors) in completely different ways, and of course, confidence will take you far.  Know that you look AMAZING, no questions asked.

We all know Tracee Ellis Ross is going to rock beautifully tailored pieces with luxurious, well-coifed tresses and it works!


And what about Amber Rose (Kanye’s new arm candy)? She is definitely making a statement every time she walks out the door with her blonde buzz cut and edgy delivery.

So…what’s your statement?

Follow Shayla’s Spring 2009 Closet Refresher Tips and you can do no wrong!  As a personal stylist and shopper, she lives by these friendly words-of-wisdom everyday.  If you have questions or want to know more about Shayla’s services please don’t hesitate to email her at or visit

As a New York City beauty PR strategist, Renae Bluitt created "In Her Shoes" to empower and enlighten women committed to realizing their dreams.


  1. Kamari

    March 31, 2009 at 10:11 am

    I completely agree with having a signature piece…it makes every outfit feel fresh and new yet completely you!

    My signature piece–a scarf. Whether tied on my bag, around my neck or head, I always have a fun scarf that speaks to my mood.

  2. Vincene

    April 1, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    The 80/20 rule is just so true. It takes creativity to wear something old in a new way. “Fellow” helped me rethink my wardrobe and get a lot of new mileage out of some time-worn, but classic pieces. It was a lot cheaper to have “Fellow” reorganize my wardrobe, than to buy new clothes. When I wear the new arrangements, I still have that same feeling that goes along with getting something fresh and new.

    My signature staple is bright red lipstick, which I wear whether it is in or out of style, because it feels right for me. Lately I have added big belts.

  3. Samantha

    April 1, 2009 at 4:41 pm

    Great tips Shay! I WANT to be all about a signature piece!

    And :-/ to the 80/20 rule, its SOOO true! I’m going through my closet as soon as I have a chance.

  4. pamela

    April 1, 2009 at 5:33 pm

    amber, amber, amber…
    shakin my head.

    i enjoy this woman immensely.

  5. pamela

    April 1, 2009 at 5:33 pm

    …and great pic shay.

  6. Keith Troy

    April 2, 2009 at 10:19 am

    I could not be prouder of you!!!

  7. isis

    April 3, 2009 at 9:45 pm

    LOVE. Kudos girl!!

  8. Monique

    April 5, 2009 at 9:53 am

    Love this! such the fresh fashion editor

  9. eniola

    April 6, 2009 at 1:36 am

    such great style tips! 80/20 rule is sooo true + an inspiration board is the best way to determine your look for the season, (i have an inspiration wall)!!

  10. Art

    April 21, 2009 at 6:23 am

    Shayla you make us proud. I am waiting for you to come and do my closet. I can follow your steps and do it myself but if I did I would have what I have. Put me on your schedule and I will see you soon.

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